good ol' her

I have a indeed very special friend here.
I can't possibly imagine what I would have become if she did not appear in my life.

One word to describe our relationship - W E I R D

Most of the time, I do the talking.
And she does the listening.

Other way round.

She does the talking, I do the listening.

Believe it or not.
She's the only person in my entire life that could make me shut up and listen.

Me and my dear friend here may seem to be two totally different people.

Hey, you don't have to think alike to love alike.

This 'good girl' here often have lotsa thoughts running about in her mind.

Some people once asked, wouldn't it a ''bored-ship'' (get it?)

She is WAY NOT boring, and never will be, to me, that is.

Oddly, she is the only one that I could stand not 8'ing.
She does every thing and feels how she feels, but I eventually just sit and wait until her heart is to be opened to me.
This is of course, because, she had been the one person, that sit there and wait till I pour out my hearts.

She has (indirectly) taught me that,
The time will come when our hearts are willing to let out,
If it hasn't, it will soon.
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I really do hope that one day, she will be able to let go from all the expectations of others. To do what she really likes without caring about what others think about. To strive for the dream that she has been longing for. And set free from the spellbind by the foolish outside people with wrong judgment on success.

Hey, remember,
Without school teachers, there will not be leaders of the world.
Without bus drivers, those who cant drive, cannot possibly go places.
Without the street sweepers, you and I would be living in a rubbish pile.
Without chefs, you'll get dead bored of your mom's cooking.
Without bakers, there will be no celebration as there are no cakes.
Indeed lawyers, engineers, doctors are important, but that does not mean other occupations are not.
Each and every field and sector are like pieces of puzzles that have to be joined together to complete a huge perfect picture.
Without you, the picture would be strange and uneven.
There will be a missing piece.

No matter what your future is to become,
Everyone of us plays our roles.
You are the same.

This is from some famous person, (I've forgotten who) :

I am only one; but still I am one.
I cannot do everything; but still I can do something.
I will not refuse to do the something I can do.
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Our basic respect towards each other.
Tolerating not knowing.

Sometimes, when we really honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we would often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, but have rather chosen to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.
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There are many things money can't buy.
To me,
One thing's for sure.
One great hug from a friend.
Priceless.