Parents ? Hmmn.
It's Father's Day today. My mom went shopping this morning. She came back, tossing a F.O.S plastic bag with men's socks in it. She asked me to wrap it before my dad's here. Of course, I did what she said.
My mom paid for the socks and it is actually a gift to my dad from ME.
During Mother's Day, my dad paid for the flowers that 'WE' bought for my mom.
I wonder why they'd do that. I find that there's no problem if I do not give anything to my dad or mom on whatever day. It doesn't seem to have a point (to me). It's not like I don't love my parents or what-so-ever. It's just that, I don't have enough money to use for myself. The stuffs that I get for them is not necessary.
Parents ..? I read a few of my friend's blogs. About the pressure and stress that parents give on their children that cause us to suffer.
I have a friend who once told me that my parents were very successful for they brought up two not exactly smart girls but unique in every way. I don't know what is considered 'successful'. But, I know, my parents had sure did what they could by doing nothing much.
My parents are different in everyway that made me feel like having parents who are normal and same like every other parent (like most of my friend's parents are like).
When I'm with my friends, they would say :
my mom is gonna scold me.
my parents wont allow me to go out.
my dad says no.
they're gonna nag nag & nag.
I would join in and say :
Yala. my mom too.
They wont allow.
bla bla.
I wouldn't understand at times. Why would I say that. Because they won't be like that.
I grew up with my parents. While others, were brought up by their parents.
They see me fall & they will keep looking at me, until I would know how to pick myself up.
I don't always like what my parents do. But they are always the best.
I, now, fully understood. And I'd never want them to be like others anymore.
They just taught me to be a better person, by teaching me to teach myself.
They did everything by doing nothing.
My mom paid for the socks and it is actually a gift to my dad from ME.
During Mother's Day, my dad paid for the flowers that 'WE' bought for my mom.
I wonder why they'd do that. I find that there's no problem if I do not give anything to my dad or mom on whatever day. It doesn't seem to have a point (to me). It's not like I don't love my parents or what-so-ever. It's just that, I don't have enough money to use for myself. The stuffs that I get for them is not necessary.
Parents ..? I read a few of my friend's blogs. About the pressure and stress that parents give on their children that cause us to suffer.
I have a friend who once told me that my parents were very successful for they brought up two not exactly smart girls but unique in every way. I don't know what is considered 'successful'. But, I know, my parents had sure did what they could by doing nothing much.
My parents are different in everyway that made me feel like having parents who are normal and same like every other parent (like most of my friend's parents are like).
When I'm with my friends, they would say :
my mom is gonna scold me.
my parents wont allow me to go out.
my dad says no.
they're gonna nag nag & nag.
I would join in and say :
Yala. my mom too.
They wont allow.
bla bla.
I wouldn't understand at times. Why would I say that. Because they won't be like that.
I grew up with my parents. While others, were brought up by their parents.
They see me fall & they will keep looking at me, until I would know how to pick myself up.
I don't always like what my parents do. But they are always the best.
I, now, fully understood. And I'd never want them to be like others anymore.
They just taught me to be a better person, by teaching me to teach myself.
They did everything by doing nothing.
1 comment:
i duno why, i sometimes dislike my parents too. but still, i do really love them. It's just it's human nature,to be the one who never get satisfied on anythings. I have comments but i think i don't have the right to say.Me myself isn't good until wat stage.<---translated from chinese. ha! Just need to learn to appreciate and cherish things! gambate!
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