Bigheaded Us. (or it's just me)

Read two of my important friend's blog that made me thinking.

Whenever we accidentally did something wrong, or perhaps it is just a small matter, it will be easy for us to apologize.

Whenever we did something that we know we're wrong and we know it's our fault, the word 'sorry' will seem to have been erased from our dictionaries.

Humans are weird things.

I did many things that were very wrong but have never express regret before, especially to the closest people in life.

When I had a fight with my friend ages ago.
I never felt that it was such a big deal.
I had no idea that the problems started from me.
For, it was just me being me.
But, when someone is hurt, by someone who's just being themselves,
I guess, it means there is a little problem with 'themselves'.

I don't remember whether I made an apology to my friend.
This made me realized something,
I may not have said 'sorry',
but I have never repeated the same thing that hurt my friend ever since.
(or did I?)

As for my other friend, no worries, we all know you mean no harm.

Until we learn whichever life lesson we're meant to at the time -- self-acceptance, self-determination, self-forgiveness, self-interest, self-knowledge, self-respect, self-sufficiency, or self-worth -- our lesson will keep coming back to us.

Everything happens for a reason.
The reason -- so we may grow.